How to beat the age debate
Are you old enough to be a doctor? SERIOUSLY PEOPLE COME ON. If I had a dollar for every time I heard that when I graduated I’d have a million bajillion dollars. At first I laughed when I heard that, but it got old really quickly. I wanted to be understanding when clients would comment on my age, but it just felt SO DAMN DEMEANING. I didn’t want to seem so sensitive and meek, but it really bothered me and seemed like clients didn’t trust me or respect all of the time, hard work, and money I had just put into becoming a doctor. So how did I overcome this huge hurdle?
Three words: TIME, CONFIDENCE, and EMPATHY.
It took some time, but after a few months I realized that most of the time people’s comments about my age came from a few of the same places:
- Their fears: A lot of people are just afraid that a new doctor doesn’t have the experience or knowledge of a doctor who’s been doing this for 5, 10, or 50 years….and they’re not wrong.
- The fix: What we lack in experience, we make up for in enthusiasm plus all the newest tips and tricks in medicine. Remind your client’s you’ve got a great support system behind you if you need help BUT that you’ve got access to all the most recent recommendations in medicine.
- Their lack of education: 99% of the population has NO idea what we grow through in vet school to get where we are. They don’t understand the rigor and complexity of our classes and clinical rotations
Cassie · January 26, 2022 at 8:14 AM
I love this – well put. I think only recently have the ‘you’re too young to know what you’re talking about” comments started to diminish…but it was frustrating for awhile!